I knew I wanted to use cloth diapers before my son was born. From being cheaper (not too much for us because being in an apartment we pay by the load for laundry) to keeping chemicals away from the cutest little tush, I knew it was the right decision. My husband needed some convincing. To allay the fears I had and to convince him I did research, lots and lots of research.
What I found boiled down to this: prefolds were for the hard core cloth diapers and if you were new to it or on the fence use pocket style or AIO (all in one) diapers. Pocket style diapers are more expensive than prefolds, but out of fear of the unknown that is what we went with. We started out with 4 Fuzzibunz, 4 Charlie Bananas, and 4 Bumgenius (2 of these were AIO because I ordered the wrong thing, but we went with it).
Having a newborn is hard so we used disposables for the first 3 weeks and then started using the cloth we had along with them. We found that the Fuzzibunz just were not absorbent enough. In light of this we ordered 6 more Charlie Bananas and 6 more Bumgenius. At first, at night we changed him every time he woke up. Then we slowly let him go longer and longer until he was going all night without being changed (although he was still waking to nurse, and still is). To accommodate the extra wetness we just added the infant insert in with the bigger insert. After awhile that started to not be enough. He was either super soaked in the morning or soaking through his clothes. So after yet more research we ordered some hemp inserts. They are more absorbent than the microfiber that comes with pocket style diapers. This worked for a bit, until night time diapering hell broke loose.
He started wetting through his diapers almost every night. At this point we were putting about 4 inserts into his diapers, we ordered even more hemp inserts, we bought wool diaper covers, we tried changing him in the night, we tried disposables. Nothing was working. Then I came across an article buried within the depths of the internet in my desperation to find answers. I sadly did not bookmark the article, and I don’t know if I would recognize it if I saw it because all I took from it was pocket style diapers are not the best answers for night time because they have no absorbency on the sides and if you have a side sleeper (ding ding ding!) there is nothing to catch the pee. The answer was prefolds with covers. We sped to the store and bought prefolds and covers (we use Thirsties duo wrap, and I love them). In my quest to get him absorbency in the sides I bought a Snappi and tried to attach the prefold around him, but our little chunker was just too chunky for that (even too big for the huge toddler sized prefolds). We don’t use a Snappi now we just lay the prefold in the cover and flare out the sides in the back. The prefold combined with two hemp inserts and a wool cover has solved our problems. We still have leaks periodically, but not most nights anymore. I also found that a fitted diapers (we have a Kissaluvs one) combined with two hemp inserts inside a cover works too, but not as well.
Our adventures into night time solutions led me to this: prefolds are not hard! Don’t be scared by them! They are cheaper, just as easy to use and wash, and the baby/toddler feels the wetness. Our Charlie Bananas all stretched out and instead of replacing them with more pockets we bought more prefolds and more covers. Since we’ve started using more prefolds, the munchkin seems to be much more interested in the toilet. We are still far from “toilet training,” but he’s getting closer and I think part of that is from our switch to prefolds.
The husband has even caught on to them with no complaints! He can even clean off a dirty one before washing. I’m so proud! Of all the things I have been proud of him for dealing with poop was not one I had imagined.
Another problem I have with pocket style diapers is that during the day they had a tendency to leak. When he was a baby he had the chubbiest of thighs with a second roll at the top. His pants would get in between this roll and his diaper and he would get big wet spots. Then, as he got older he would leave wet spots where he was sitting. It would come out the sides. These would both happen when he wasn’t super wet either. I think the problem is that on pocket diapers the soft interior fabric that is sewn onto the PUL to create a pocket sticks out the sides. I guess it doesn’t really “stick” out, but it is on the outside where the two pieces are sewn together. So when the interior gets wet it spreads to the sides on the outside and created leaks for us. Prefold and covers never have this problem (unless you accidentally leave the prefold hanging out). The covers are purely PUL so there is nothing to leak. The Thirsties Duo Wraps also have these awesome leg gussets that really make sure leaks don’t happen.
In short, flats and prefolds may seem scary, but they are just as easy as pocket style diapers. Each has a learning curve. Once you get it you will be cruising and never look back! And for anyone new to cloth this e-book is worth every. single. penny. http://thehumbledhomemaker.com/cloth-diaper-convert (not an affiliated link). I recently read it because it came with the Ultimate Healthy Bundle. I have been cloth diaper for 19 months and still learned a lot. She explains every type imaginable and what she has found works for her and for others she has talked to. She talks about laundering, night time, traveling, and everything in between. You could find all this information for free online, but you would have to spend a lot of time searching. Having it all in one place, like an e-book, makes it really handy!
Anyone else use cloth diapers? What were your experiences?